you know what’s both fucked up and beautiful all at once, it’s the way my fellow man mistreats you in the dark and yet you are so full of light that you can expose the truth without his confession. now, of course, that gut feeling, the discernment, that ability to uncover a lie and shine your light on it isn’t enough if you don’t confront him and leave, but never the less, that gift you have is so damn powerful and only gets stronger when you begin to ask yourself the right fucking questions…
so much of what i share here has been thought over for years… in my time as an adult, i’ve assumed the role of observer, a witness to the tells and emotional symbolism etched into acts of fradualence and betrayal amongs other things and i am always happy to take a light and combine it with yours so that we can get to the bottom of it…
these 10 questions are very important; maybe you know them already, but maybe there’s a few here that you’ve never began to ask yoursel,f and the moment you do, you have this moment of deepr realization that will inspire movemnet and an act of self love as you begin to chart your exit and put distance between yourself and someone who isn’t worthy of your loyalty…
wait, while i have you here, if there’s something inside of you that has struggled within this year, if there have been moments where you feel as though you’ve lost yourself and you don’t know where to begin on that journey to rediscovering who you are so that you can become more of what you are meant to be…
then… these journals were written for you, these digital journals, combined will walk you to an exit and a new door whenever you’re ready… i think, you are more than capable of doing this shit on your own but i wouldn’t be me if i didn’t offer you my words as a support…. you can find the journals here… below, that button you see, just make sure you come back to this because these 10 questions will change everything…
the wild thing is, cheaters are always telling that they are cheating and asking yourself this question will reveal whatever has been hiding in the dark…
does he get annoyed when you ask a normal question about his day???
and sit with that for a moment, i think when you read this, hopefully out loud, you immediately felt something inside of you, recognition…
men, cheating men, hate it when you ask questions, especially ones that involve the days that are filled with everything he’s been trying to hide…
and i’m gonna stop talking over these questions because i’ll definitely get carried away, so here’s the other nine…
does his phone live face-down all the time? (cheaters who are hiding their face often need their phones face down every time you’re near…every time)
has he ever called you crazy for noticing something that turned out to be real?
can he go a full day without needing to know where you are, but you can’t?
does he have a reason ready before you’ve even finished asking?
do his stories change just enough that you’ve started keeping track?
does he punish you with silence, then act like you invented the problem?
does he compliment you hardest right after he’s been distant?
does he make you feel like loving him is a test you keep failing?
has he trained you to feel grateful for the bare minimum by rationing it, not by withholding it outright??
I know, I know.. I said 10 but maybe your nervous system can take 10 more…just enter here when you’re ready…I promise, these get so much more deeper and to the fucking root…
