Oct 19, 2026 · 3 min listen · Last updated October 19, 2026
From storyflo. This is your daily audio brief. Chloe here. October 19th. Parenting in ten — let's begin with what changed my mind this week. Let's get into it. First, from MOM BRAIN. The Real Cost of Kids | Volume 44.
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The Real Cost of Kids | Volume 44
A family of four in Des Moines, Iowa, is navigating the high costs of raising kids, with daycare alone taking up over half of their $150,000 annual income. They spent about $1,000 on medical expenses in the past year, mostly for a minor ER visit. The parents have adjusted their careers, prioritizing family over advancement, which has led to some financial strain. They’re currently considering a larger home and vehicle but are hesitant due to their low mortgage rate. Social life has shifted, focusing more on family and accommodating friends. Despite the stress, they find joy in watching their kids learn and grow, while also managing a 529 plan for college savings. They advise new parents to avoid overthinking purchases, as kids outgrow things quickly.
Hey! So, I was just reading about this new study on how parents think about their kids and technology. It looked at two main ways parents approach this: one is based on fear, and the other is based on trust. They surveyed parents and teens, and what they found is pretty interesting.
Basically, parents who had a more "trust-based" mindset – meaning they believed their kids could learn to manage screen time and make good decisions – had teens who reported feeling more trusted and capable. These teens also seemed to be better at self-regulating their tech use. On the flip side, parents with a "fear-based" mindset, who saw screens as a big threat, felt more stressed and less effective, and their kids didn't show the same positive outcomes.
What's cool is that a trust-based mindset doesn't mean being hands-off. Parents in the study who trusted their kids still monitored them and used controls. It's more about having a realistic view of the risks and believing in your child's ability to navigate them with your support. The study suggests that we can actually work on shifting our mindsets, maybe by questioning some of the scary messages we get about tech and kids.
The focus is on budget-friendly options, steering clear of high-priced items that can be discouraging. It includes eight tops, five bottoms, and three coats, along with shoes, a belt, a bag, and a hat.
The author emphasizes a cohesive fall color palette, explaining how each color complements the others. You'll also find links to shop the recommended items, highlighting where it's smart to invest a bit more versus areas to save. Plus, there are helpful tips on shopping your own closet first, ensuring you only purchase what you truly need.
This week’s post reflects on a whirlwind of emotional experiences, including the complexities of IVF. The author is still processing everything and isn’t quite ready to share details yet, but finds comfort in connecting with readers. They’ve been compiling a list of whimsical items that bring joy, which serves as a mental escape. Highlights include a custom ceramic candlestick, a cherry lamp for nighttime diaper changes, and delightful dresses that spark happiness. The author also mentions unique Oaxacan shell candles, which hold cultural significance. They end with a nod to a sale on favorite items, inviting readers to explore.
There’s a fascinating list of underused names that might just be perfect for a baby. These names are familiar, often seen in literature or classic name lists, but surprisingly rare today—most were given to fewer than 150 babies in 2025. They don’t have that dated vibe that some older names do, making them appealing options for new parents.
Names like Adrienne, Frida, and Wilhelmina for girls, and Anton, Gilbert, and Orson for boys stand out. They’re not trending right now, so it’s unlikely you’ll see them skyrocketing in popularity anytime soon. Some of these names are more common in other countries, like Reggie and Orla in the UK, but they haven’t quite caught on in the U.S.
If you’re a name enthusiast, you might find joy in meeting a little Rhoda or a young Finnian. It’s a refreshing take on naming that steers clear of the overly trendy options. What do you think? Any favorites from this list?