There’s a stage of healing that never makes it onto a quote card or a viral social media post… It isn’t the glow-up… it isn’t the moment she walks away with her head high.
There’s a stage of healing that never makes it onto a quote card or a viral social media post…
It isn’t the glow-up… it isn’t the moment she walks away with her head high. It’s the quiet, awkward middle, where she knows better but her body hasb’t caught up yet…
I’ve watched women move through this… she rereads a simple request five times before sending it… Then flips her phone face down like it might bite her hand. She tells someone, “ I can’t make it…” without a paragraph of excuses and spends the whole evening convinced she’s become a bad person. She feels relief and grief at the same time and has no idea which one to trust.
She thinks she should be further along by now. She thinks one bad day cancels out a good month. A familiar cologne, a certain street… a voice that sounds too much like his… and suddenly she’s right back in a moment she swore she buried… She decides she’s weak… that she’s starting over, but in truth…she isn’t!
What she’s actually feeling isn’t failure… It’s the delayed weight of everything she couldn’t afford to feel while she was still in it… When you spend years managing someone else’s moods, there’s no room left to process your own. The pain doesn’t vanish… It waits. And it finally shows up once you’re safe enough to hold it.
That’s why the act of healing can feel heavier before it feels light… She isn’t falling apart; she’s thawing… damn….I like that…read that again…
You’re not behind… you’re not broken… you’re becoming a woman who no longer has to shrink to be loved… and that kind of becoming takes time… and I’m so fucking proud of you!!! Truly!!!!
I created something specifically for the woman who read this and somehow saw her own reflection while staring into each of the words on this screen. I built something that will bring her truth so far outside of her heart and mind that healing will become the thing that helps her ascend, grow, and expand… and rise to another level, a new frequency….
I created something for you; reach for it when you’re ready… press the button to begin…
Have a beautiful day… a beautiful October. Thank you for reading…
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