You know what… There comes a point when being dependable starts to feel like disappearing. You become the person everyone calls. The one who understands, the one who forgives, the one who makes room, adjusts, carries, fixes, and keeps going. And somewhere in all of that, you’ve stopped asking yourself what you need!
When you finally stop being who everyone needs you to be, something strange and beautiful happens.
Some people will get uncomfortable… fuck em…. I’m just playing… naw, I’m not… but some of them will get uncomfortable, not because you’ve become cruel but because access to you has changed. Your boundaries get stronger, your explanations get shorter. You stop volunteering for exhaustion!
Slowly, you begin to meet yourself again…
You begin to remember what you like…
You begin to notice what drains you and your spirit…
You become more protective of your peace…
You stop confusing being needed with being loved…
Rebuilding yourself isn’t always about becoming someone new, and I need you to understand and remember this!
Sometimes it’s about removing everything that required you to abandon who you already were…
This is why I created ** The Woman Rebuilding Herself**, a 30-day guided journal for the woman who is ready to put herself back at the center of her own life.
Thirty days of reflection, poetry, release, and returning to yourself.
Because maybe the next version of your life doesn’t need more of you.
Maybe it needs you back.
