There’s no Geneva Convention for exes. No internationally recognized treaty that governs who gets to talk to whom, who can like what.
Does commenting on your mutual friend’s engagement photo count as a boundary violation or just basic human decency.
You’re left to figure it out in real time while your stomach falls out your ass every time you see their name pop-up in places it technically has every right to be.
Your friends aren’t assets to be divided in divorce court. And yet there you are, mentally calculating who knew you first, whose wedding you attended together…
So let’s establish some actual rules-for-exes. The kind that account for human complexity without requiring a law degree to interpret.
7 Rules If You’re An Ex: